Monday, November 5, 2012

Zael


Zael Ellenhorn
11.5.12


Attitudes about skin color have definitely changed, but are not, by any definition, changed. To be changed would be to be completed, and attitudes along with prejudice towards skin color and ethnicity is still prevalent in every day life. Spike Lee made this idea very public back in the 1980s, when he directed, produced, and starred in School Daze, which was about skin color on college campuses, specifically, black college campuses. The Color Complex discusses Lee quite a bit, stating that Jungle Fever was an exploration of interracial sexuality
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Spike Lee is an interesting figure, especially because through his films and his shows, he usually states something that is very obvious but is never stated, such as opinions about the way that black people are still treated in this country and how those racial stereotypes affect their every day lives. 

These stereotypes and differences between people with different skin tones create insecurities and situations like the one with the therapist and the black female who says that her sisters hate her because her hair is long and straight and not nappy and short.

One of the things that really struck me in this chapter introducing the idea of the color complex was when the woman was out to dinner with a man and he said that he couldn’t get too involved with a dark skinned woman. I think that idea is ridiculous. If you are attracted to someone and you like them as a person, there is no reason that skin tone should play a factor in your decision to have children with them. His reasoning was that he wanted to have light skinned children, which is disturbing, because he is talking about them the same way that people talk about breeding dogs, trying to match genotypes in order to avoid making a mutt and keep the bloodline pure.

I dont think that skin types should be political when it comes to sexual attractiveness. People are attracted to who they are attracted to, they cant help it. Its ridiculous to think that a light skinned black man is trying to “get back to his roots” if he goes out with a girl who’s skin is darker than his, and its ridiculous to think that if he dated a white woman, he would be accused of having a color complex. Attraction, most of the time, barely even makes sense. Being good looking is entirely, 100 percent, subjective. Therefore, because everybody has different opinions on beauty, literally everyone views it a little bit differently. This makes attraction random, and not conscious, and skin color should be entirely disregarded when it comes down to it. However, what I find interesting is when the article talked about how black men are actually statistically attracted to lighter skinned women, the same way that white men are.

One of the points that the Gender and Society article makes is about how womens attractiveness, from society’s point of view, is one of the most important factors in terms of judging their worth, and therefore, because more men find lighter skinned women attractive, the skin lightening business exists, and sells its products. Everywhere you look, as a matter of a fact, has celebrities with so much makeup caked on their face they look white even if they are black. There is a poster of Nicki Minaj with a powder white face and blonde hair, along with a picture of Beyonce that is so washed out you cant even tell what color her skin is. Women, as always, feel extra pressure from society to look a certain way, and this is one of the main reasons that skin lightening is prevalent and popular in modern day society. No matter how far we think we’ve come, lighter skin is still subconsciously more accepted in the modern world.

6 comments:

  1. Charlotte Sargent

    I had the same reaction as Zael when the white man said he couldn’t get too involved with a dark skinned woman because he wanted to have light skinned children. I agree with Zael that this mans reasoning for breaking up with this woman is absurd. The color of ones skin should not matter if you like a person for who they are. If you are attracted to or love someone for their personality and qualities, then the color of their skin should play no role in your decision to be with them. People still find lighter skin more attractive and superior to darker skin. Society plays a huge role in this idea that having lighter skin is more attractive. As Zael says in his post, Nicki Minaj poses for pictures and ads with a “powder white” face and blonde hair and Beyonce’s skin is so washed out, it is incredibly unrealistic and they both look much different in reality. Both of these extremely famous celebrities only reinforce the idea that lighter skin is better.

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  2. Natalie Bennett
    I definitely agree with you that there are underlying prejudices remaining in this country that are unspoken. We see some of that here when the author mentions the bit in the beginning about black men in a night club who are attracted to women of lighter skin, but would never admit that. This is also present when the quote from the light skinned girl is given in chapter seven that tells us how she has to approach dark guys because they don't think they can go up to her.

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  3. Gracie Hall

    I was glad Zael brought up the skin lightening phenomenon that has mushroomed recently. Almost the entirety of Glenn's "Yearning for Lightness" was about the rise of this new industry; in his introduction Glenn states that one of his major questions was, "How is skin lightening interwoven into the world economic system and its transnational circuits of products, capital, culture, and people?" We learned that this previously 'under the rug' industry, is now worth billions of dollars. It has used the internet, specific advertising, and huge respected beauty companies to promote these changes. It has similarly encouraged the ideal that light skin can be seen as global capital, and has created a market for this demand all over the world.

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  4. Zael brought up a good point about how men view dark skinned woman. When the man went on a date with a so called "darker skinned" woman, he said that he couldn't get too involved simply because her skin was too dark. This is very disturbing to me as well. Just as Zael pointed out, humans are not supposed to choose their spouse like dog breeders choose dogs to mate. The fact that this man was more focused on the physical appearance of his children when it comes to choosing a spouse rather than love, then that is very upsetting. Another good point Zael mentions is the growing skin lightening industry. It seems as though black American women in the media, tend not to typical black features. Just as Zael mentioned, some of the most successful black women such as Beyonce and Nicki Manaj, can barely tell that they are black because their skin is lighten for picture and posters etc.

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  5. Zael's post was very interesting. Although I do wish that he included more about "Yearning for Lightness", his ideas about the color complex were detailed. I liked how he included the part of the chapter when the lighter-skinned man said he didn't want to get serious with a darker woman. Although I was surprised that the man said this aloud to the girl, I wasn't surprised at his mindset. I really think that all of us have thought about what we want our kids to look like whether we admit it or not. It might be wrong, but as Zael said, attitudes about skin color have not changed. They are still extremely prevalent in society and play an enormous impact in the dating world.

    Kelsey Warkentin

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  6. TJ Brady- I agree with Zael that being attracted to someone is almost completely out of your control. So to think that someone could choose what race or skin color they would be attracted to is ridiculous because it out of our control. Zael pointed out the most ridiculous quote in the reading which discussed the man saying that he couldn't get initimate with the woman because of her skin color. Another one I thought was just as absurd and awful to say was "Dont bring home any old dark-skinned black boys, cause I don't want any black, nappy-headed grand babies". I think that this quote is ridiculous because its asking the person to choose who they will be attracted to and even fall in love with. All in all I agree with Zaels post because so many parts of attraction are out of control.

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