Never
have I before stopped to think about the Color Complex. I’ve heard about
racism, and issues people have with darker skinned folks and even lighter skin
ones, but I never stopped and notice how the darker skinned side of the
spectrum felt like. I never thought a little black girl would hate her long
straight her that her dad liked to show off so much, because her other sisters
hated her for it. The Color Complex goes
deeply into the issue with not just merely race, but skin color, and how
different shades or dark skin are portrayed.
It has been made to believe by men and women in the black community that
being with someone with lighter skin will raise your standards, if a black man
is seen holding hands with a light skinned woman, people will look at him and
think, “he made it”. It is also interesting to observe the insecurity that
rises along with marrying a lighter skinned woman. Men feel intimidated, almost
as if they could be too much for them, too good. But the main point is,
interracial marriage’s been on the rise, both black men and women are seeking
for lighter skinned partners, and it is not because of a matter of race, but a
matter of skin color related to social status. Since the end of slavery being
with a lighter skinned partner symbolizes some kind of acceptance, almost as if
it puts you in a better spot in the society. The lack of acceptance of being
just simply black, or thinking it isn’t the norm, has increased, which leads us
to wonder, will the black community just decrease along the years, and when I
say black community I don’t mean only the race, or even the darker skin, but
black practices, black hair, or even more ethnical clothing.
I find it fascinating how the
article Yearning for Lightness shows that the issue isn’t necessarily the race,
but rather the skin color someone has. I can easily relate this issue to what I
see in Brazil, and what even the article talks about, that many times darker
skinned people are seen as dirty, less fortunate, and not as well accepted
because or mere assumptions on their skin tone. Because of the strong level of
superiority Europeans had over African slaves for decades, being or becoming
whiter was a way of purifying oneself, and this belief has been carried along
with people ever since. The main point it, colonialism has spread this idea
that white skin, per say, is seen as superior, and people with lighter skin
will automatically be related to a greater amount of power in the society. In
African, Latino, and Asian societies, people not only bleach their skins
because they want to look more beautiful, but because they want to be better
accepted, they want to fit in, they don’t want to be seen as part of a less
privileged class when they have good well-paid jobs, only because of their skin
color.
Lily Cannon
ReplyDeleteReading through the Color Complex and Alines post surprised me in the sense that if a black man is seen holding hands with a light skinned woman, people will look at him and think, “he made it”. Never before reading this did I think about how people are looked at and judged based on whom their partner is and what color skin tone they have. Walking down a street and seeing a women and man holding hands whether one of them is black or white would never be brought up in my discussion with friends it would be, “o how cute they look!” or other comments not based on their skin tone. I agree with the article that “peoples appearances and love lives are their own business, and should remain so” (p7 Color Complex-Introduction).
Charlotte Sargent
ReplyDeleteI agree with Aline in the fact that I never thought a little black girl would hate her long, straight hair because her dad was obsessed with showing it off and loved it so much, that it mad her sisters hate her. First of all it is incredibly sad that she hated the beautiful hair she was born with because it caused conflict between her and her sisters. Second of all, it is astonishing that a father would be so proud of just the fact that one of his daughters happened to be born with different and “more beautiful” hair in his eyes. The fact that it made him feel as if he were of higher status through one of his daughters attributes is ridiculous. This proves how highly in society people think of looks and attractive qualities and it effects our behaviors and perceptions of others. This little girls hair, made her father feel like he was not just seen as a black man with black stereotypes, just as when a black man for example dates a woman with lighter skin, as Aline said, they feel as if they have raised their standards and will therefore be looked at and thought of in a better way.
Anna Grofik
ReplyDeleteLike Aline, I have not seriously considered the existence of prejudice and racism within an ethnic group as oppose to racism coming from outside of the group. As Aline mentioned from the article, we have certain impressions when we view an interracial couple walking down the street. While some African Americans might view being with a lighter skinned person as a status symbol, I struggle to find the justification for the correlation between the appearance of a relationship and percieved social mobility. In Aline's discussion of yearning for lightness, I agree that this desire for lighter skin is historically influenced. I also thought it was interesting to view color of skin as a indicator of privilege or socioeconomic status. For example, one of the African American gay men discussed that he would be perceived as economically better off if he went to a restaurant with a white man instead of a darker skinned man.
Gracie Hall
ReplyDeleteThe idea that both of these articles present, like Aline said, is that skin color is not just compared by different races, in fact it is also observed within races. Although both the chapter and the article made references to the 'white' beauty ideal, what they seemed to focus on more clearly is how skin color can play a role within races. We see in the chapter 'Dating and Mating' that women with lighter skin, or more 'white' features are often judged by the rest of the black community-- it is, as the authors say, their "dirty little secret". This chapter specifically reminded me of 'Hair Matters' not only because it dealt primarily African-American women, but because it recorded the deduced the scrutiny of peers which lead to low self-esteem and frustration.
Just like Aline stated, with in the African American race, skin color is not just skin deep. The color of your skin has much more meaning behind it than just a shade of a color. Skin color relates to social status and class with in America. This idea relates back to slavery in America. This is probably why black men that marry white women feel like they have "made it". Aline also brings up a good point about insecurities relating to skin color. African American's feel as though people with lighter skin are too good for them and that they wouldn't be able to get with them. This all relates back to how skin color reflects the social status of Americans. This is the driving force behind skin lightening industries because people have such a strong desire to fit in with the societal standards of skin color
ReplyDeleteLike Aline, I too had never thought about the color complex (at least in the dating world). But this isn't surprising as the introduction states that most white people haven't caught on to the dilemma. I really liked how Aline brought up colonialism. She said, "The main point it, colonialism has spread this idea that white skin, per say, is seen as superior, and people with lighter skin will automatically be related to a greater amount of power in the society." This is an extremely important idea to note. Most darker skinned people wouldn't have felt inferior if it wasn't for Europeans treading on their territory and taking over. It is interesting to think about how the color complex might be different if colonialism and imperialism had never occurred. I also liked how Aline thought about the future of this problem. She said that if people continue to prefer lighter skin, the black population will be wiped out. While it's hard to predict the future, this is definitely a possibility if people continue to act this way.
ReplyDeleteKelsey Warkentin