Monday, October 1, 2012


Jill Dahrooge

            It is evident that the value of  outer beauty has gained more importance over the years.  According to research in the "Male Beauty Work" article, in 1992 a magazine poll taken by women showed that the inner traits of men beat their outer traits.  However, today if that same survey was taken I am positive that the results would be extremely different.  Girls will say that they only care about a guy's personality and that their inner traits are the most important; yet, when we first see a man we always base our judgments from his looks.  I know many girls would agree, especially teenagers, that we judge guys on how they look when we first see them.  If we like how they look then we will proceed to talk to them, if we don't then girls are most likely to ignore the boy and look for another one to talk to.  Without giving this "ugly" boy a chance to show his personality he is already shut down by how he looks.  It is awful to think that this occurs but it is the reality of our society.  Women spend hours altering their appearance in hope to attract the approval of men.  However, "Male Beauty Work" shows that men are also spending time and money to gain the same approval from women.   There has been a recent emphasis on external male beauty.  Male salons were created in order to fix skin problems, body hair, body weight, and body shape that are portrayed in the media as unattractive.  However, the goal of these salons does not really seem to be to help these men change their looks but to gain their money.  One salon worker told a reporter, "whenever we're treating a customer we're continuously thinking of what we can sell to him next." It appears that the salon workers are not that interested in helping a man change his looks but really only want his money; therefore, their advice and with the help of the media, men's minds are corrupted on the importance of outer beauty. 

            Hair removal was also a big topic covered in both of these articles.  In "Male Beauty Work", a 1999 magazine poll asked women to rank the most unattractive things about men.  Number three was leg hair.  I disagree with this poll because male leg hair seems to be important to girls today.  This might be only true in the culture I live in but girls tend to think that a boy with shaved legs is strange and disgusting.  Unless the boy is a swimmer and needs a hairless body to perform well in his sport, girls today usually find a hairless man weird.  Yet is it extremely important for girls to be hairless.  This idea relates to points in both the article "The Political Economy of Choice Genital Modification and the Global Cosmetic Services Industry" and the film Miss Representation.  The article talks about how waxing has become a painful necessity to women these days.  It continuously talks about the dangers of waxing and how waxing is a form of women "alienating" their bodies, yet it is becoming increasingly popular.  The author Rebecca Herzig gives the example of the customer who violently moves around and yells during her bikini waxes but after the process is complete the customer hugs the worker and says "see you in a month."  This story made me laugh yet I was completely disturbed by it.  It is so insane that women go through all of these painful treatments just because that is how we "need" to look.  What is wrong with our natural beauty?  Miss Representation further discusses this problem and blames it on the control of the media.  The messages our media sends rips apart even the most powerful women like Michelle Obama or Sarah Palin making it even worse for ordinary girls.  Some statistics the film showed were: 65% of women have eating disorders, over 50% of girls at the age of 13 already hate their bodies, and over the last 10 years depression rates have doubled.  The magazines, blogs, and TV shows that judge women solely on their appearance are so large in number that our new generations cannot see past the physical impurities to understand the true intellect of women.  Movies portray women as dumb, sex symbols, and incapable of living without a man.  I like how the film Miss Representation says we are "living in a nation of teenage boys."  Women are not taken seriously if they do not look aesthetically pleasing.

            In order to demolish these stereotypes we need to take down the media.  Women need to take a stand, as well as men.  People need to stop purchasing beauty products and surgeries and find healthier hobbies or else the well being of our future generations will be destroyed.  Girls need to grow up with more confidence and know that they too can be powerful without looking like the unrealistic human beings that are portrayed in the media.  If more money is put into education than into beauty products and advertising, we will have a more peaceful world.

2 comments:

  1. I agree with Jill when she wrote about how the different cultures find leg hair unattractive. I think it is true that in our culture most women find leg hair on men more attractive. Women usually tend to find it more masculine, and it is thought of as odd when a man doesn’t have leg hair, except for as Jill said, if he is an athlete such as a swimmer. It is strange how in society, we make exceptions for certain norms, such as a swimmer having shaved legs. If a woman see’s a man with shaved legs her first reaction would most likely be judgmental, but the second she were to find out he is a swimmer, her opinion would completely be altered. As Jill also said, women on the other hand are always expected to be hairless, and if they have hair where they “shouldn’t,” they are judged and perceived as unfeminine, dirty, etc. Women go through a great deal of pain, such as waxing to become hairless and appear beautiful. In the film, Miss Representation, it shows how much pressure the media puts on women, including young girls. It is sad to know how many women and young girls suffer from eating disorders due to what the media puts out as beautiful and ideal. The media makes the models look unrealistically perfect, causing girls to try to live up to an ideal that they just can’t. It also causes men to judge women more harshly. I couldn’t believe when I saw the employees who were helping with a runway show, wearing shirts that said, “PLEASE, don’t feed the models.” Miss Representation portrays how much women are looked at as just sex symbols and how even the most strong, smart, and powerful women are not taken seriously, nor even close to being treated or respected as a male figure is. One of the many examples from the film that stood out to me was when a man and women were trying to broadcast the news, and the man wanted to watch and talk about a clip of Paris Hilton literally just walking. The woman newscaster was quite upset and bothered by the fact that they would not start with the news, which was actually relevant and important, yet the men absolutely ignored her. I was shocked that something like that actually happened on the live news and that the men completely disrespected their colleague. The film made me realize even more so, the huge amount of pressure women have to not only to look beautiful or perfect in every single way to appeal to men and to fit in with society, but also to just be plain respected.

    -Charlotte Sargent

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  2. Lily Cannon
    I thought it was a good point that Jill brought up about how women say they judge men based on their personality which I believe also is not true at all. Your dream guy has to have an amazing personality but yet also the “good looks” to add to that and the only way one can get that “dream guy” is the judge them when they first lay eyes on them. If anyone says that looks don’t matter I highly doubt it. This is maybe why more and more men are becoming more obsessed with their appearance. I was shocked reading the article “Male Beauty Work” because I didn’t realize, globally the extent that men go to to look a certain way. Like Jill and Charlotte were discussing about the leg hair topic, I personally am attracted to a good amount of hair on a guys legs. Although that may sound weird, I don’t want guy’s legs smoother than mine. The less body hair the more feminine one is I believe the media is trying to get across. Which leads into the article “The Political Economy of Choice Genital Modification and the Global Cosmetic Services Industry”, like Jill talked about women go to great extents to become presentable in society dealing with waxing. I know throughout the generations the discussion on hair has evolved dramatically. When my mother was my age she didn’t start shaving until junior year of high school and would have never gotten a bikini wax or anything in that area but now a day it’s a necessity to some woman.

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