Zael Ellenhorn
Eating disorders are prevalent in more cases than it would seem. They affect more than 7 million American women and 70 million people worldwide. Because of the culture that we live in of skinny models and actresses, being very skinny is a body image that most girls these days want to have, as it is seen as very sexy. However, because of this, girls are now taking it to extremes and that includes eating disorders. Today, 90 percent of high school age girls think that they are overweight. Thats a shockingly high amount. The reason for that is that when you look around in the media and in society, skinny and no body fat is the image of sexiness for most women. Because of that, teenagers especially will do whatever it takes to achieve that body type.
However, to contrast that, in the introduction, the author states that it is too easy to blame the mass media and the fashion magazines. She says that there is something more to these eating disorders, and that may be true. Having said that, no girl is born knowing that skinny is sexy. It is taught. So while it is definitely true that it is too easy to point a finger at “the media” or “society,” societal norms that are expressed through the media are absolutely a factor in women’s health when it comes to body image and eating disorders. If there was no pressure from outside sources, no societal norm, then they wouldn’t worry about the way that their body looked because they would have no reason to and no pressure to look a certain way.
The idea of perfection, especially in sports, is one that translates into every day life. When Title IX comes up in this reading, the author talks about how while sports for girls are a great way to raise confidence and self-esteem, as she was also told by her father, they also can create and aid eating disorders. The statistics that come from this are shocking. 16 percent of all female athletes have intense drives for thinness, and another 13 percent have full blown eating disorders. That means that of all the female athletes that exist in the world...29 percent of them have a problem with their bodies or with food. This striving for perfection that sports teaches can be beneficial in your every day life, but when that drive is translated into something unhealthy, such as an eating disorder, that perfection becomes a little less perfect.
The other reason that this is a problem with women now is because of the culture of expectation. While men do have expectations to live up to, women have many more. Through stereotypes, oppression, societal norms, and actually just being a woman in the modern day and age, girls go through much more than guys realize or go through themselves. There is nothing perfect about being a girl. No matter what, it seems like they are always on one end of the spectrum, and that could have something to do with eating disorders. If a girl hooks up with a lot of guys, she’s a slut. If she doesn’t she’s a prude. If she’s thin, then she’s too skinny. If she’s bigger, then she needs to lose weight. It is this impossible middle, this weird space where girls try to fit in that creates these insecurities and therefore creates eating disorders. The pursuit of perfection is something that we all have inside of us, to different degrees of course. However, in todays modern society, and with the culture surrounding women, it makes sense that that pursuit may have gone a little bit too far, especially when it comes to eating disorders and body image.
In Dworkin and Wachs, they discuss feminine ideals and shifting social behaviors when it comes to women and their roles in society. What used to be a housewife is now a woman with a career. A father who works 9-5 and comes home to a beer and the baseball game while letting his wife deal with the kids is not something that is as common as it was in the 1960’s. Women these days are powerful, and with that value comes responsibility. In the article, it is stated that “many argue that valuations ahve now moved thoward appearances within consumption-based postindustrial society. Obtaining a valued appearance requires the consumption of a host of goods and services that assist individuals in adhering to an ever-changing set of gendered ideals.” What that is really saying is that now that women leave the house, there is an immense beauty industry, and that is one of the main causes in eating disorders. So indirectly, in this case, the valuation of women in society has lead to an increase in eating disorders because it is associated with the fashion and beauty industry, along with the idea of fitness. It was also very interesting to read about how the women were relieved when they were pregnant, because they were forced to focus on the functionality of their bodies rather than the appearance, when today, appearance is everything even if it causes you bodily harm or makes you unhealthy. However, post pregnancy, all of those bodily worries and insecurities return with a vengeance in the form of extra weight and therefore extra pressure to lose it. Pregnancy can be a 9 month break from worrying about how your body looks, but the real world always returns.
Charlotte Sargent
ReplyDeleteI agree with Zael’s point when he talks about how girls have this constant pressure and these high expectations to look or be a certain way, much more so than guys realize. In Zael’s post he says, “If a girl hooks up with a lot of guys, she’s a slut. If she doesn’t she’s a prude. If she’s thin, then she’s too skinny. If she’s bigger, then she needs to lose weight.” I have to say that unfortunately this is true. It seems that no matter what girls do, they will get a label, and the label usually comes with some sort of negative connotations. Why is it that when a guy hooks up with a lot of girls, he is usually praised and even if he is called a “player” it most likely won’t faze him. In high school, I spent a lot of time with my guy friends, and while spending time with them, I constantly listened to them talk about girls, from what they thought was hot to what they thought was ugly or bad. They constantly focused primarily on the girl’s features, mainly butt and boobs, and then they would consider personality. More often than not the guys could get past a girls faulty personality if the she was “hot enough.” I still don’t understand how guys can hook up with a girl who they don’t like anything about except for her body. This just reveals as Zael said how much pressure girls are under to look good. Not only is it the media but it is society as well and the opinions of men that push girls into this world of expectations and self consciousness, which has the capability to lead to the unfortunate disease of an eating disorder.
Lily Cannon
ReplyDeleteI think Zael brings up a good point on how there is really no in between on exercising. He explains
how people complain on how one is too skinny, but at the same time when someone has a little chunk you are considered “fat”. This comparison to hooking up with a lot of guys and not hooking up with any guys is a great comparison that I agree with. In addition to this point, people either are extreme exercisers or couch potatoes. This is unhealthy. I have noticed that when one goes on a diet it is extreme and at times unhealthy that may work short term, but the moment you have your first piece of bread you quickly gain it back. These highs and lows in ones weight is not healthy and can quickly destruct one mentally and physically.
We have heard from a number of sources now that, in a time of changing gender norms and progression of women's rights, there is always going to be a force pushing back just as hard. Zael implied that as women have become more successful in their careers and have entered a sphere outside of domestic work, "society" has been threatened. Dworkin and Wachs in their article about pregnancy and post-pregnancy bodies look at this through maternity. They state that through intense workouts and body scrutiny, women are again being oppressed and constrained. They still are supposed to take up less space (in concern to pregnant bodies as well as bulky muscles) and "consume" feminine ideals. Their nine-month gestation period has no longer become a time of freedom, but instead a time of intense scrutiny.
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ReplyDeleteI couldn't agree more with Zael's post. In particular, his comment that "there is nothing perfect about being a girl". When I first read that, I thought it to be a bit harsh. But when thinking about it in detail, it is overwhelmingly true. I constantly think about the things that I don't like about myself. Does this tight shirt make my hips look too wide? Do these jeans make my butt look too small? Do I look too skinny/fat? And those are just a few. My boyfriend always tells me that he likes everything about me and I am very fortunate to have someone like that in my life. But even though I have a boyfriend who goes to a different school, I still care what other guys think about me. Sometimes when getting ready to go out, I question why I'm even trying when I already have some one. But regardless, I still dress up and spend time on my appearance because I don't want to be judged and I want guys to think I'm attractive. Like Zael said, there are so many external factors and pressures that cause girls to be this way. Whether it's the fact that women are in the workforce or that the media portrays beauty as being skinny and put together, it's becoming a huge problem.
Zael brings up an interesting point about how girls can never be "perfect". Girls are scrutinized for being too big or too skinny. If girls get with a lot of guys, then they are considered a slut. If a girl doesn't get with any guys, then she is a prude. There is no happy medium. When it comes to athletic girls, Zael points out that girls will go to extreme measures in order to be thin. Athletes are competitive by nature and having the perfect body seems to be an aspect of their competitive nature. Another point that Zael brings up is women's body during pregnancy. A woman's body during pregnancy is viewed as a functional image, rather than scrutinized. Yet women are still concerned about their appearance and are anxious to "get their body back".
ReplyDeleteTJ-I think zael had a great post. His points on girls hooking up is so true and something that no guys have to deal with. Guys almost never get judged for getting with too many girls while girls death with that constantly. Also, the criticism on girls bodies is something guys almost never have to deal with. Although they're are obviously fit guys and skinny guys there is a big group of guys who rarely to never work out, but aren't considered too fat or too skinny, just normal. This group does not exist for girls and is a major problem. Another thing that was disturbing about the article was the problems girls playing sports have with their weight. Another problem I think that wasn't addressed as much was how athletes deal with their weight after they are done playing. I know this is a problem with many athletes who have to deal with the less exercise they experience when they stop playing.
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