Whether it’s
describing how the meaning of beauty has evolved or the different views of
hair, “Beauty Myth” and “Hair Matters” go into great detail about the role of
genders in society.
“Beauty Myth” was
all about the author cleverly stressing the differences between female
liberation and female beauty. Looking back to as early as the 1940’s, women
played a completely different role in society then they do now. If a woman
didn’t find her husband in high school, the only reason she went to college was
to get one. Women were completely and utterly dominated by men. They stayed at
home, raised the children and always had to make their husband happy when he walked
through the door. Naturally, this cult of domesticity didn’t slide with some
people and “feminists” began to change the women’s image. Feminism changed many
things in society: the job market, religion, advertisement, government, health,
etc. All of these significant changes didn’t happen in a century, but a mere
50-60 years. This created a problem that Naomi Wolf introduces. The fact that
the “Feminine Mystique” provided more opportunities to women, “a private
reality colonized female consciousness” (16). The more power and recognition
that women gained, the more industries benefitted off of it. Eating disorders
began to arise, cosmetic surgery is considered the norm in some countries, and
the 7 million dollar pornographic industry keeps on rising.
Why
is all of this happening? Well, Wolf claims that the “beauty myth is not about
women at all” (13). Rather, it is about men’s existent power. I have to say
that I somewhat agree with this article. Now that women have a say in society,
they are controlled by ideals and stereotypes. Beauty has a completely
different meaning than it did in the 1940’s. “Beauty…is determined by politics”
(12). It also is determined by the economy, for the economy depends on the
representation of women. The fact that women have more power, causes a “dark
vein of self-hatred, physical obsessions” (10).
I feel as though men are confused by how quickly gender relations have
transformed and they are more critical of women. It seems like men have a
natural yearning to be superior over women, so they want the ones who are more
attractive, not successful and smart. That is what causes the “Beauty Myth”;
the fact that cosmetic surgery and crazy diets make women feel better. We all just need to step back and realize
that men and women, though significantly different, are equal! And we must not
let gender transformations change the way women feel about themselves and men
depict them.
Similarly to “Beauty Myth”, “Hair Matters” is all about
the depiction of hair as it pertains to race, power, choice and femininity.
Throughout this article, Ingrid Banks interviews a variety of women about their
views on hair in society. She starts off with discussing the idea of hair and
power. While there were many opinions to be discussed, one that struck me was
that of Ndeye-ante. When asked about power, she talked about she was trained to
be envious of white girls’ hair. Banks
describes this as “how the process of
disliking black physical features is very insidious because of mainstream
images of beauty” (76). In society, there are so many myths about what is
attractive, that hair becomes either a disempowerment or an empowerment for certain
women. Banks then goes on to talk about hair and choice. One point of view that
I found interesting was Barbara’s. She said, “it is the individual who
determines her
life chances, not external forces” (79). So it is not about
whether a woman is black, white, gay, straight, etc…it’s about having the
capability to make your own choices and constructing your own notions about
beauty. Some women did say they tend to follow trends or go by how they were
raised by their parents. But personally, and agreeing with Barbara, I believe
it is a woman’s choice about how she goes about styling her hair and there are
no external forces. The last point Banks gets across is the concept of hair and
femininity. This point was the most interesting to me because it is a way of
thinking that I am guilty of. Aria basically said that, “if a woman lacks hair,
her femininity is questioned” (89). This is a notion that I believe to be true
as well. Women tend to be criticized of their femininity and their sexuality if
they have a “butch” haircut. Personally, I feel more beautiful with long hair
rather than short hair. I think that’s a thought shared by many, even if its
not the most plausible one.
All in all, both of these articles were very
interesting. They covered a variety of topics that seemed strange to write
about at first, but proved otherwise with the dense material. Beauty is
something very important to women nowadays, even though it has changed in
meaning. At the end of her article, Banks states something that very much
relates both pieces of writing together. “People living in a sexist and
homophobic society receive certain messages about what constitutes gender
identity and sexuality” (96). While most of us would like to say we do not live
in that type of society, I believe it is still heavily apparent.
Annie Husted
ReplyDeleteKelsey’s post did a great job of incorporating tenable evidence from the readings with personal beliefs--many of which I realized correlated with my own beliefs and ideas concerning beauty. I thought that it was interesting how she opened up her post with discussing the overlapping concepts in both “The Beauty Myth” and “Hair Matters,” and how they both articulate the role of genders in society. I think specifically, this idea is highlighted through the concept of power: how a women’s power is accessed through her appearance, and how ultimately men are the instigators of this ideal. Concerning this, I liked how Kelsey began by discussing the beauty myth’s impact on women and how it is channeled through the booming beauty-altering industries. I liked how she then transitioned to how the standards of beauty that women believe in all stem from the over-arching influence of a man’s opinion. It is so interesting to see the dynamics between men’s power over women’s psyche, and this was well addressed in Kelsey’s post. This idea reminded me of the discussion we had in class regarding the online dating site that allowed people to pick their significant others based on race. The idea of men liking to be superior over women that Kelsey talked about in her post relate to how, in this online dating study, when men did choose significant others whose race deviated from their own, the highest percent of men chose women whose race had a “submissive” stereotype attached to it. In the part of Kelsey’s post that discussed “Hair Matters,” what really resonated with me was when she said that she feels more beautiful with long hair. Before I came to college, I had hair that fell all the way down my back. I would receive so many complements about how “beautiful” my hair was and how it looked “so beautiful long.” Since it became a hassle to take care of, I cut it before I came to school (and I was really excited to get it cut!) But after I cut it, I received almost no comments on my hair and this made me feel a lot more self-conscious. It’s interesting how cutting hair can have such a big impact on feeling beautiful and powerful--and most importantly how these feelings that are so personal are so influenced by others.
Kelsey had a great post that helped me to understand both "hair matters" and "Beauty myth" better then i did before. i tend to agree with your entire post especially when you stated "We all just need to step back and realize that men and women, though significantly different, are equal! And we must not let gender transformations change the way women feel about themselves and men depict them." this poses a great view on this situation. instead of blaming one gender, people need to comprehend that men and women are equal in todays society thus should be treated equally. Kelsey's statements about hair matters are also very accurate. in hair matters when hair choices and female sexuality arose, i found to agree with many statements made. For example, in todays society if a woman lacks hair or CHOOSES to have he hair a certain way over the traditional styles both men and women are quick to question her sexuality. Kelsey did very well in giving, what i feel, i am accurate summary of the articles while also using her opinion to form a good post.
ReplyDeleteKelsey wrote a great post that did a great job in analyzing the topics addressed in the articles and relating them to personal experience and beliefs. In “Hair Matters”, I also found Barbara’s, and Elisa’s, points of hairstyle as a reflection of the individual and not of external forces interesting. I think these perspectives had a sense of empowerment and self-determination, and I think a woman’s ability to make her own choices leads to this sense of empowerment and individual expression. However, I question whether the influence of external forces can be eliminated entirely. As we read in the “Beauty Myth” article, women are being trapped by beauty ideals, and I think these societal ideas of what is physically beautiful influence and shape women’s decisions in terms of hairstyling. People “are conditioned or socialized to believe they must look a certain way” (82), and their ability to determine how to style their hair is affected. In addition, I think the idea of choice is difficult to define in this situation. At what point can one make a personal choice free of external influence?
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Kelsey, I liked how well the you incorporated your personal experience and ideas into the articles, it definitely gave them their own twist. I dont think that external forces can be entirely eliminated however. I think that societal norms these days are very deeply engrained in our culture, and it would take a massive effort and a lot of change for those views to be expressed differently, given how widely accepted the majority of the views expressed in terms of women beauty are. There is definitely a standard that has been set for women that can either be fallen into or rejected.
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ReplyDeleteI agree with almost everything Kelsey stated in her post. For example, I do believe that men are more critical towards women because of the speed at which gender relations have changed. In our grandfathers’ time women were only considered to be wives, but because of the changing times we now hold positions such as Secretary of State or President. Such a scenario could cause mass confusion causing men to retreat back into structuralism (black and white ideals of femininity). Kelsey and Banks “believe it is a woman’s choice about how she goes about styling her hair and there are no external forces”, I completely agree with this. This ideal could also explain our appearance; we can choose to look like Snooki or we can choose to look like Jackie Kennedy. There are no external forces at play here.
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